I believe it was a giant, green monster that said, "Don't make me angry. You wouldn't like me when I'm angry."
Well apparently, these words couldn't be further from the truth when a woman is involved in an argument or "disagreement" with her male counterpart. Of course, we females don't evolve into the Incredible Hulk. Still, our anger is not a pretty sight: our eyes become the red laser of a sniper gun, our lips are the trigger and our words are the ammunition.
And yet, rather than waving the white flag or putting his hands in the air, he seems charmed. Amused even. Like a criminal being stopped by a lawman with a water pistol!
What is it exactly that makes a man flutter like a butterfly when his woman - or any particular woman for that matter - gets mad at him or his actions?
Is it a turn-on? Is it a matter of control?
If the guy finds you even more appealing when you're angry, then surely it must be something that the female does differently than when she's smiling like Barbie. From the pierced lips and narrowed eyes to the expressive and uncontrollable body language (especially the hands - forget the hips; it's the hands that don't lie). Perhaps to a man, fierceness is sexy.
However, it could actually be a control thing. Men love to be the alpha dog in any situation. They want to be in control of the household, the workplace, an arm wrestle match at a local pub. It's in their DNA to want to be the head of at least one thing in their life, if not impractically everything.
So perhaps to a man, the first person to lose control of their emotions in an argument - ergo, get angry - loses control period. Therefore, the joy of a woman getting mad might not be based on a sexual desire at all. It could be based on power and the adrenaline from... winning?
No one can really be sure of the reason for a man's addiction to a woman's anger. All I know is this: guys, it's not every woman that'll get mad; some will get even. Watch "John Tucker Must Die". You'll get the picture. ;)
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